Looking for the perfect pair, so what, did you find it? Part 2

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The first part was very interesting, with everyone participating. Many questions were raised, such as: Does love endure all things, yes or no? And how to act with a violent husband who beats his wife? Many people thought it was a wonderful study to share with many couples and young people who want to get married. Those who have had problems in their relationship can very well help lives. When we talk about what the Bible says about love enduring all things, it is clear that this statement does not include betrayals, aggression, disrespect, abuse, lack of character, etc. Of course, if this man promised you heaven and is giving you hell, you cannot continue living with this, of course not. The problem addressed in the previous study was precisely that you did not notice the signs that this person left throughout the courtship and engagement. But if you saw the signs yourself and were totally involved in an overwhelming passion that made you believe that it was love reaching marriage. If you received a warning from GOD through your parents, friends, leaders, pastors and still went ahead with this relationship, yes, you are reaping what you sowed and at a very high price. But you should never continue in a terrible relationship like this. You should seek a separation. But I ask you, do you think it will be easy to separate from a man like this. Just hire a lawyer, ask for a divorce and everything will be resolved? I'm glad that in your case it is like this. Do you have children? If you have more children, it will be difficult. Talk to him. Seek spiritual help together, because GOD can lead this man to repentance and change this whole situation. But if you say there is no way this man can change. I've done everything and nothing. I want to separate, it is your right, because GOD did not call you to a relationship like this. You must recognize your mistake before GOD who, as a True FATHER, showed you the path to follow, but you did not recognize His care. So what can you do? Report the aggressor. The court will order preventive detention, either ex officio, through a request from the Public Prosecutor's Office or also through representation from a police authority. The investigation will probably take around 81 days to be concluded as a criminal process. (In Brazil). What can be considered as aggression against a woman in marriage? Emotional aggression that leads to a decrease in the woman's self-esteem, degrading or controlling her actions, behaviors, beliefs and decision-making power. This man's prison sentence can be from three months to a year. It's all very interesting when you learn about what you are entitled to and what you can do because of such an attitude against your life. But I ask, is it easy to resolve? Of course not. According to the Maria da Penha law, there is no bail for this case, but a judge can determine bail for a man who assaults his wife, and then what? The risk of being exposed to this man's wrath, his anger at being reported. I'm not saying that because of this you shouldn't report it. I want to show that it's not that easy. Many women are afraid to report it precisely for this reason. Yes, they should report it. But a man like that certainly has the right to sick mind and is capable of doing anything. I return to the point of the other study. It would have been better to have listened to the advice or paid attention to the signs. If you are already seeing this boyfriend, fiancé, someone like that, wouldn't it be better to end it now before it's too late? So many crimes against women. Crimes of passion. Crimes committed in the name of the love that he or she says he or she feels for his or her partner. Shall we ask for help from heaven? Yes, GOD can change this situation definitively. This man will leave your life for good or there will be a fix and both of you will be able to live the new life of GOD. What do you want at this moment? You know that if you report him, there will be retaliation, but the way things are, you can't continue. So what should you do? I don't rule out the idea that this man should not be reported. I want to help you get out of this as quickly as possible and to have as few consequences as possible for both you and especially for your children. Even if you were married in a church and as a Christian, a relationship like this can never be considered a Christian marriage. And there is certainly everything in this relationship, except love. What should the church do? Help this woman with the complaint and also remove her from the house. It is easy to talk, but in reality it is complicated even for the one who is going to intervene with help. 1 Peter 3:7 says: 7 Likewise, you husbands, live with your wives according to understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. The men who act like this are mostly under the influence of alcohol, out of jealousy. Not only men, but many women also attack their husbands. In proportionately smaller numbers. This violent man will divert attention from everything he does by saying that it is the victim's fault. In reality, he is the "victim". They also project the circumstances, he is very stressed. He will apologize to his wife until he does it all over again. You, woman, need to resolve this situation here and now. If you know the MIGHTY GOD, it is time to get on your knees and ask for mercy. I have come to help you through my prayers. Do your part, and if there is no other way, seek justice. Don't do it alone, look for someone who will truly support you and protect you. However, don't forget to talk to GOD. If you haven't yet given your life to the LORD JESUS, do it right now. Right now, and believe me, HE will help you like no one else and will also put people in your life who will help you tremendously.
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With love in CHRIST,
Missionary Helper Freitas

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